Feb 5/ Make not the mistake of only condemning the wrongs in the lives of your pupils; remember also to accord generous recognition for the most praiseworthy things in their lives. Forget not that I will stop at nothing to restore self-respect to those who have lost it, and who really desire to regain it. 159.3.3
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Feb 4/ Overpowering arguments and mental superiority are not to be employed to coerce men and women into the kingdom. Man's mind is not to be crushed by the mere weight of logic or overawed by shrewd eloquence. 159:3.2
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Feb 3/ Make your appeals directly to the divine spirit that dwells within the minds of men. 159:3.2
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