When you choose to follow Jesus, you receive the blessings and rewards of following Jesus. But it also means you do what Jesus did, you can't follow Jesus if you don't love others like Jesus loves us. He loves the widows, orphans and each and every kind of people. John 13:14-35 Jesus said "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.".